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Modeling

There are certain attitudes and behaviors of adults that may make alcohol more appealing to a teen. These actions are ones that many parents do - and while it is never our intent to encourage underage drinking, some of these actions and behaviors may do just that. Here is a checklist of some messages and actions that may contribute to your teens use.

Check the appropriate box for each question:

1. Do you make lighthearted or joking comments about other people's heavy drinking? (i.e. "He's got a hollow leg." or "She holds her liquor well!")

2. Do you tell funny or glorified stories about you or your friends' drinking antics when you were younger?

3. Do you ask your child to get you an alcoholic drink from the fridge?

4. Do you wear t-shirts, baseball caps, etc. that advertise or promote drinking and/or specific brands of alcohol?

5. When watching television with your child, do you laugh at scenes where alcohol is being abused?

6. Do you consider drinking to be a rite of passage for teenagers that can't be avoided?

7. Do you host adult social gatherings at your home where alcoholic beverages are the only drinks served and/or where drinking is the central focus of the gathering?

8. Do you assume that alcohol is a necessary part of any celebration or social gathering?

9. Do you model using alcohol as a stress reduction tool? (i.e. comments like "I've had a long day, I need a drink!")

10. Do you offer alcohol to your teen as a "special treat" for celebrations, family gatherings, etc.?

11. Do you host parties at your house where alcohol is served or available to teens?

12. Does your child observe you drinking more than 2 or 3 drinks on any one occasion?

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